Comments on: The Sound of a Heart Breaking http://bluntwit.com/the-sound-of-a-heart-breaking/ Absurd musings on life, the universe and nothing Thu, 20 Jan 2011 03:24:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Indian Giving Comments | The Daily Egg http://bluntwit.com/the-sound-of-a-heart-breaking/comment-page-1/#comment-11151 Indian Giving Comments | The Daily Egg Sun, 18 Jan 2009 09:14:37 +0000 http://bluntwit.com/?p=166#comment-11151 [...] his sad clown face because his heart was broken. Instead of humor, we get a really pretty, but very depressing post. I decide to lighten his day by leaving a radio commercial [...] [...] his sad clown face because his heart was broken. Instead of humor, we get a really pretty, but very depressing post. I decide to lighten his day by leaving a radio commercial [...]

]]> By: Wayne http://bluntwit.com/the-sound-of-a-heart-breaking/comment-page-1/#comment-11149 Wayne Wed, 14 Jan 2009 13:31:01 +0000 http://bluntwit.com/?p=166#comment-11149 I think it is essentially soundless although the perceived sound within is deafening. Relinquishing the hurt and pained memories will be tough, but I'm sure that you will, in time. Been there, but is was mostly my fault. We are (very) casual friends now :( I think it is essentially soundless although the perceived sound within is deafening. Relinquishing the hurt and pained memories will be tough, but I’m sure that you will, in time.

Been there, but is was mostly my fault. We are (very) casual friends now :(

]]> By: JD http://bluntwit.com/the-sound-of-a-heart-breaking/comment-page-1/#comment-11148 JD Wed, 14 Jan 2009 01:37:53 +0000 http://bluntwit.com/?p=166#comment-11148 i'm still in the bathroom phase i’m still in the bathroom phase

]]> By: Sex Mahoney http://bluntwit.com/the-sound-of-a-heart-breaking/comment-page-1/#comment-11147 Sex Mahoney Wed, 14 Jan 2009 01:29:57 +0000 http://bluntwit.com/?p=166#comment-11147 After the first time, heart break is no big thing; in fact, it almost becomes kind of pleasant and gives you a nice perspective on relationship longevity in between bouts of crying in the bathroom and soliciting cheap prostitutes for solace. Sex Mahoney for President After the first time, heart break is no big thing; in fact, it almost becomes kind of pleasant and gives you a nice perspective on relationship longevity in between bouts of crying in the bathroom and soliciting cheap prostitutes for solace.

Sex Mahoney for President

]]> By: JD http://bluntwit.com/the-sound-of-a-heart-breaking/comment-page-1/#comment-11146 JD Tue, 13 Jan 2009 17:37:02 +0000 http://bluntwit.com/?p=166#comment-11146 i think we all have obtuseness at our core i know i did i think we all

have obtuseness at our core

i know i did

]]> By: JD http://bluntwit.com/the-sound-of-a-heart-breaking/comment-page-1/#comment-11145 JD Tue, 13 Jan 2009 17:36:27 +0000 http://bluntwit.com/?p=166#comment-11145 ah you final thought are words to live by i appreciate that you took the time to detail some of your life experience ah you final thought

are words to live by

i appreciate that you took the time to detail some of your life experience

]]> By: Don http://bluntwit.com/the-sound-of-a-heart-breaking/comment-page-1/#comment-11144 Don Tue, 13 Jan 2009 16:32:41 +0000 http://bluntwit.com/?p=166#comment-11144 Devastating is the best description I can come up with and the sound in my head was that of a trip hammer. I guess what I heard was the sound of my heart breaking. It took me 2 years to figure out what happened and why. Sometimes I can be a tad obtuse. Devastating is the best description I can come up with and the sound in my head was that of a trip hammer. I guess what I heard was the sound of my heart breaking. It took me 2 years to figure out what happened and why. Sometimes I can be a tad obtuse.

]]> By: Elizabeth http://bluntwit.com/the-sound-of-a-heart-breaking/comment-page-1/#comment-11143 Elizabeth Tue, 13 Jan 2009 04:02:25 +0000 http://bluntwit.com/?p=166#comment-11143 Well said. I think there are different kinds of breaks or fissures that create a broken heart. Some are sudden, like glass being fractured by a strong blow, and the one whole heart being transformed immediately to tiny pieces. Other breaks are missing pieces - such as loved ones removed by a death that are never replaced. The heart can heal in one way but the loss of the piece is still felt, like the loss of a limb - gone but you get fooled into thinking it is there again until you look and see it is not. I have had to be the breaker but bore a huge responsibility with it and broke two hearts at the same time, my own included. I have been the breakee as well and was able to take the loss like mourning a death. And then a few years later, the person actually did die. So, mourning all over again - it was years ago, but I know that even if your heart is broken a relationship can survive on some level over time if both parties can have perspective and learn from mistakes made and realize underlying care can still exist. I was able to transform the relationship into a good, solid friendship meant to last a lifetime, but it did not due to the motorcycle accident. All is not lost if both parties do not wish for it to be. Things like pain, depression, recovery, freedom, hit people differently but ultimately if love was there at all, it can continue in another form or level if both parties are able to put aside ego, blame, and stubbornness. I can say I am relieved? not sure if that is how to verbalize it- to know we were on excellent terms prior to the accident and that there was nothing left unsaid, no good wishes witheld, he moved onto the next life so suddenly but without any doubts where I was concerned. I believe in living with no regrets. Say what you mean, mean what you say and live the best life you can. Well said. I think there are different kinds of breaks or fissures that create a broken heart. Some are sudden, like glass being fractured by a strong blow, and the one whole heart being transformed immediately to tiny pieces. Other breaks are missing pieces – such as loved ones removed by a death that are never replaced. The heart can heal in one way but the loss of the piece is still felt, like the loss of a limb – gone but you get fooled into thinking it is there again until you look and see it is not. I have had to be the breaker but bore a huge responsibility with it and broke two hearts at the same time, my own included. I have been the breakee as well and was able to take the loss like mourning a death. And then a few years later, the person actually did die. So, mourning all over again – it was years ago, but I know that even if your heart is broken a relationship can survive on some level over time if both parties can have perspective and learn from mistakes made and realize underlying care can still exist. I was able to transform the relationship into a good, solid friendship meant to last a lifetime, but it did not due to the motorcycle accident. All is not lost if both parties do not wish for it to be. Things like pain, depression, recovery, freedom, hit people differently but ultimately if love was there at all, it can continue in another form or level if both parties are able to put aside ego, blame, and stubbornness. I can say I am relieved? not sure if that is how to verbalize it- to know we were on excellent terms prior to the accident and that there was nothing left unsaid, no good wishes witheld, he moved onto the next life so suddenly but without any doubts where I was concerned. I believe in living with no regrets. Say what you mean, mean what you say and live the best life you can.

]]> By: pam http://bluntwit.com/the-sound-of-a-heart-breaking/comment-page-1/#comment-11142 pam Tue, 13 Jan 2009 03:03:04 +0000 http://bluntwit.com/?p=166#comment-11142 hahaha hmm... we may be onto something here?! hahaha hmm… we may be onto something here?!

]]> By: JD http://bluntwit.com/the-sound-of-a-heart-breaking/comment-page-1/#comment-11141 JD Tue, 13 Jan 2009 01:41:56 +0000 http://bluntwit.com/?p=166#comment-11141 feed a broken heart starve a lustful fever is that it???? feed a broken heart starve a lustful fever is that it????

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